Navigating a divorce and the family court system is one of the most difficult processes a person can experience. Divorcing a high conflict individual makes the process even more challenging and can be traumatizing. The process can be even more daunting if you do not have the proper support. It is my goal to use my experiences to empower and support parents on how to advocate for themselves and their children.
It is the divorce coach's role to support their client through this time, helping them to create a solution focused action plan for living in peace, knowing that their client’s actions and decisions are not emotion based. As your divorce coach, I will help you set realistic expectations for the process and help you to create strategies and techniques that will enable you to navigate and cope with the divorce journey.
Amanda has been trained through the High Conflict Divorce Certification Program (HCDCP) - the nation's first and only coaching program specializing in high conflict divorce and custody cases involving high conflict individuals who bear narcissistic traits of personality disorders.
Divorce coaching neither offers legal advice nor serves as a substitute for an attorney. Coaching is not clinical in nature like therapy nor is a medical diagnosis made. Divorce coaching does not delve into the past to look for causes of difficult issues. A divorce coach is, however, a mentor and is there to support you with sound strategies for effective communication and guidance during this trying time.
Important: I Choose Me is committed to being an advocate for children's rights and best interests without bias toward the parental rights of either mother or father. While neither gender is exempt from personality disorders or from exhibiting narcissistic traits, studies show that such traits are statistically more prevalent in men.
I belong to a team of women who were selected from thousands of applicants and were trained by the world renowned expert on high conflict divorces and founder of One Mom's Battle, Tina Swithin. We were tutored by....
I've been trained to see high conflict personalities and their affects on your life, identify your goals, and develop strategies to help you reach them.
I have extensive knowledge and experience with mediation, pysch evaluations, trial, settlement, lawyers, Parenting Consultants, etc. and can prepare you for the same.
You can be assured that, when working with me, we will find the professionals near you that will best support you. That includes, a therapist, GAL, supervisor, attorney....
Unfortunately, most high conflict exes will continue to abuse and harass you even after separation. I can equip you with tools to, not only combat this post-separation abuse, but find long term healing and peace.